T H E E VEOATNTI'NaG- G A Z E T T E EVENING GAZETTE. . ENTERED AT THE POST OFFICE IN NOR- WALK As A NEWSPAPER. m IL SUBSCRIPTIONS. DAILY—One year, 33 £351: months, 31.75; hree months, 31; one month,_40c. WEEKLY—One year. in advance, 81; six months. 600.; three menths. 35c. \ ‘ SATURDAY, AUGUST 20, 1898. EVE’S RAMBLINGS. EQMMENT AND GOSSIP AMONG THE WOMEN, BY ONE OF THEM. The .“born gentleman’? seems to be a creature of another generation as will be observed by the conduct of the men of the present generation. A‘keen observer of th'e manners of man, with whom I was talking the Other day commented upon the youth of'the present time and the compari- sons that, were. drawn were not flatter- ring; ._ Oi-fcourse as with everything else thei e are exceptions totthe general rule, and now and then a young man of ex- cellent address and irreproachable hearing will be nOticed among others in his class——and he is noticed—his re- fined breeding is appreciated. la: HOW often We hear it exclaimed of an old gentleman with his snowy‘ white hair and beard and his fine eyht, “There’ s a gentleman of the old school.” Yes, the old school is greatly admii ed and, the possession of the Com teous manner of that school is a charm of which. many ”are envious—however, thou-e are few’who would strive to cul- tivate it. The world of tO-day will not wait for you. You must be forward - and aggressive to hold your own; the consequence is that the mildness of manner and consideration for others is impossible and entirely lost sight of in the rush. The young man of to-day looks upon his young girl acquaintances more as comrades—perhaps that fact makes the girls more comfortable and happier than'if otherwise. She is bound to take care‘of herself and yet with it all she appreciates small offices performed for her comfort. ’ The young man seems to think the . sum and substance Of- the word polite- ness consists only of tipping his hat to his friends, sometimes taking it Off and extending his arm as far out as its length will permit—nothing else counts in his estimation. Sometimes even this little mark of respect is omitted. Now as a matter of fact. girls like to heindependent; they like to be, out- spoken; they enjoy being consulted; they want to enjoy the some sports as the boys do without being‘hampered by conventional notions; and what seems curious too but nevertheless true they demand consideiatiOu Things in life are changing and I suppose though we lament the 1eversed positions we cannot help but rejoice at the emancipation of women from the bondage ”of cOnventionalities which fettered her in days gone by. It is only to be expected thata young girl has not—cannot have—much ex- perience, if any, of the various little social duties that are required of and from a married woman. ' ' aziarge family, and has lived a quiet country life, with the simple round of interests and amusements that consti- tute the society of so many country - places. ‘ Naturally, therefore, she must feel , somewhat at a loss what exactly to do l , when called upon, without any spemal training or experience, to not only order a household, but to receive guests, return visits, and act the part of hostess to people who are probably one and all absolute strangers to her. For in most cases the young wife not only leaves the old home, but even' its neighborhood, and begins her new life among neighbors of whose very names she has hitherto been ignorant, but with whom, of course, she hopes and wishes to live on friendly terms. Often, too, this very desire to like and to be liked has the effect of making a girl shy and nervous, and therefore ,she does not show herself off to the best advantage, for to do this a person must feel at ease, and be sure Of her- self and of what is the right thing to do and say, a confidence which a few people have by nature, but which comes to mosgof us only with time and experience. She has perhaps been a member Of' When the husband, as is generally the case, has business or work that oc- cupies him during the day, the young wife will naturally at first find it a lit- tle bit dull and lonesome to be left all day to her own company and devices; but it never does to let this feeling grow upon one, or to let it become a grievance and source Of trouble. It is what most young meet at the beginning of their new life, and for their ownsakes must over- come. The only way in which she can do this is to find or make an occupation for ' herself. Avoid idleness, is the . best advice that can be given to or taken by a young wife, for work is the Only real talisman against boredom, ennui and hysteria. M gag/éei a/guc. Feminine Chat. The renewal of a broken friendship is a pure joy. There is but a wee line of division between country gossip and downright slander. The loveliest voice in the world loses its music after you quarrel with the person to whom it belongs. If men were only half as perfect as they think themselves this world would be away ahead of Heaven. It is a great virtue to forgive your enemies, but it is oftentimes a greater one to forgive your friends. In praising the pen’s superiority over the sword no one ever thinks of putting in a good word for the ink. Books dealing with the subject of Polar expeditions are especially good reading on these days of humidity. Life holds nothing much more har- rowing than to know that someone we love is ill and we cannot go to them. The golf player who hasn’t at some time or other made the remark about. “linked sweetness long "drown out”, isn’t half an enthusiast ' When the wai is over will the foot- ball man regain his pedeStal, or will .the soldier laddies step into the place of honor in the affections of the winter girl? The1 e is no person living who doesn’t fondly believe that either he or. she was a remarkably beautiful infant. , It would seem‘ that the punctual people in this world waste a lot Of time ' Waiting for those who are not punctual. A real man can never describe the way that a woman is diessed so' that another woman can get any idea Of her toillette. Don’ t get the notion into your head that curl papers and slippers run down at the heel make you feel the. heat less fO101bly How many people _._are ' interested listeners when they a1e doing the talk- ing, but me not such good ones when you a1e doing it. The woman whose hair is nOt natural- ly 0m 1y takes pains to info'i hi you hOW much better looking she is in winter than in summe1 TO RENT. '1‘0 RENT—A large hall in the GA-. ZETTE Building. A l ' to Charles PD .3 N30 tf Olmstead, Masonic Building. W ANTED. VV ANTED—Houses and Real Estate tosell. W. H. Byington, Insur- auce, GAZETTE Building. N30 tf ANTED—Contractors to know ‘6 "I that the Fidelity and Deposit (70.. ofMaryland furnishes surety. W. H. Byington, agent, GAZETTE Build- ing. 1V30tf - FOR SALE. E‘Oitb ‘ALE~ House at Broad Itiver, 6 moms and basement; new bain; lot 75.11200; ch iCken house and fruit. W. H. Byington, Insurance, GAZETTE Building. . MS .tf FOR SALE—House on Franklin ave- nue, water and sewer connection; barn and hennery. W. H. Byington, Insurr ance, GAZETTE Building. M8 tf FOR SALE OR RENT—House on‘ Camp street; 13 rooms, modern im- provements; barn and large carriage house. W. H. Byington, Insurance, GAZETTE Building. M8 tf FOR SALE—On Newtown avenue, a finefhouse of 10 r s, hot and cold water, furnace etch» Lot 9511400. Will be sold cheap if taken at once. W. H. Byington, Insurance, GAZETTE Build- ing. D29 tf FOR;SALE.—Three fine building lots on Wilton avenue. 0. E. Wilson, Insurance, GAZETTE Building. N301 tf FOR SALE—Two building lots on Newtown avenue, 6011200. W. H. By- ington, Insurance, GAZETTE Buildingi D29t OR SALE—One of the best building lots in the city; five minutes walk from Bridge. Water and gas on street. 'W. H. Byington, Insurance, GAZETTE Building. N30 tf OR SA LE—A house on Wilton ave- nue, 6 rooms. Will be sold cheap. W. H. Byington, Insurance, GAZETTE Building. N30 tf Comprehends s i x We”) york Schools. The L A W 5011001 (With- D a Y ”I r and Evening Classes) W ()9 31¢ Medical College, Graduate School, Pedagogy. ENGINEERING and UNIVERSITY COLLEGE- For circulars address L1 J. Tompkins. Registrar. Washing- » ton Square. New York City. wives have to Leave South NOeralk at 9: 15 A M Where Ocean Breezes Blow 1111111 P1111111 1111111111" TO EITHER Watch 3111 _ 1101113111111 Wednesday, Aug. 24 $ 1 5 0 FOR THE ROUND TRIP. Excursion tickets, the number of Which will be strictly limited, will be good only on the special train and date as above, and must be purchased before taking the cars, or regular fare will be charged. Special Train, leaves South Norwalk at 71-15 a. m. and Westport, 7. '22. con- necting at New London with steamer ‘ Block Island for Watch Hill Or BlOck Island. Steamer due at Watch Hill at " 10:55 a. 111., Block Island at 12, 30 p. m. Returning, Boat leaves Block Island~ at 2. 20 p. m., and Watch Hill at 3 3.5 p. in. Special return train leaves New ' London at 5.20 p. m. ' The New York, New Haven; - ‘ To Policy-holders for Claims by Death . . .. $13,279,630 66 _ & Hfifigg‘z figfifad‘ To Policy-holders for Endowments, Dividends, etc. . 12,712,424 76 c, H, pLATT, Genq Supt, For all other Accounts , . . . . . .. 10,132,005 57 GEO. L. CONNOR, Pass. Traffic Agt.‘ ‘ ' ‘ ' W C. T. HEMPSTEAD, Gen. » Pass. Agent. . POPULAR, . ASSETQ' . ... L, United States Bonds and other Securities . - . $132,017.34! 45 Sun-(1a.. Sal]! I First Lien Loans on Bond and Mortgage. . . . [69,423,937 31 y . ‘ Loans on Stocks and Bonds . . . . 12,880,308 00 A Real Estate . ' . . . . .2I,6I8,454, 88 Cash in Banks and Trust Companies . . . 11,705,195 82 EXCU ORSION Accrued Interest, Net Deferred Premiums, etc. ' . . 6,141,209 20» A ' - ' $253,783.43? 66 Reserve for Policies and other Liabilities . . W Surplus . . . , . . . $35,508,194 39 GONEY ISLAND Insurance and Annuities in Force . . . . $936,634,496 63 STEAMER ' ' . BELLE gum-11: SUN DAY, Auggl - '11, 60c. Excursion Fare, 60c.- j - Leave Coney Island, 5: 28 P. M A: Leave East 315m St. at 6: 30. Subject to cEiange without ’nOtice. , A grand chance to see the Naval battle ships, cruisers, etc 121'}: 111111116111— ,Newly RenO‘vated. Fxcéllent Table Beard. ' SUNDAY DINNERS a Specialty. from 1 to 2 p. m. 50 "Cents. L. A. W. Hotel. 23 WTWO Lines Trolley Cars pass the door. .1. G. HAMlL-TON, Proprietor. TWO GOOD COALING STATIONS I With a cOaling station in the Philip- pine Islands for the U. S. Navy, and a coaling station at the yard Of B. Harris for the people of the Town of NorWalk, the town and navy am well provided for. We handle nothing but the best grades of Coal for Home and Factory use. This is our price—ours because we made it. —Nut, Stove and Egg Coal, $5. 00 per ton, delivered. No Dust ! N0 Slate! hy Goal Ital—is Screened I YARD AND OFFICE: 122. 124 ahd 126 Water Street. Foot of Raymond B. HARRIS PHQNE CALL, 3l-5. = P S. —-DOn’ t forget what you paid fer Coal last winter.: I by the Treasurer, and have carefully gone over a E" . property held by pany’s holdings 0 have c NEW YORK. RICHARD A. McGURDY,Pre31dent Statement for the Year EndingDec. 31:97. According to the Standard of the Insurance Department of the State of New York. I v I. ' 'IhO undersigned, a Committee appointed by your honorable body, on the twenty. » second day of December, l897, to examine the Annual Statement of the Company and, to verify the same, respectfully———-_r That, pursuant to the power and authority thereby conferred, the Committee have, at various dates between the ' date of the said reference and the date of .this Report, attended at the oflice of the Company, and have been waited on the Comptroller, the Auditor, and the Cashier, lithe items contained' in the said Statement, and have found the same to be corre c.t They have examined and counted every certificate of stock, bond and other obligation held by the Company, and compared re carried in said Statement with the mad ket quotations, and find the same not exceeding ny cases below them. They have examined and counted the bonds and mortgages on real They have also verified the valuation of the COm- " f real estate and have verified the deposits of money in the various banks and trust companies, and. ounted the cash on hand held by the Cashier. And the Committee certify that all the books, papers, documents, and evidence of title of every description nones- ation have been f1 eely submitted to the Committee by the said officers and their assistants, and that. ' - the same are accurate, in good order, and well kept. 1“ I ' I. the prices at which the same a such quOtations—in fact, in ma the Company, and find the same to be as stated. sary in such examin \ INOOMI. Received for Premiums I . ‘ . . From all other Sources 9 . . . $42,693.50! 99 3549 1639308 13 DISBUESEMENTS. , l have carefully examined the foregoing Statement and find the same to be correct' , . liabilities calculated by the Insurance Department. CHARLES A. PRELLER, Auditor. From the Surplus a. dividend will be. appertioned as usual Report Of the Examining Committee. OffiCO of the Mutual Life Insurance Company. of New York. To THE HONORABLE, Tun Bonn or Tausrnss or TIIE III'I'IIIL LIFE IISIIIIIIIGE GOMPIIY OF NEW YORK. REPORT ‘ ‘ : together with the respective assistants of such ofliCers And the Committee further certify that the investments of the Company are of 1,111,311 order, and that the system SAMUEL D. BABCOGK RICHARD A. MCCUBDI JAMES C. HOLDEN HEBMANN 0. Von POST WILLIAM J. SEWELL OLIVER HABRIMAN ROBERT OLYPHANT GEORGE F. BAKE): DUDLEY 0LCOTT CHAS. R. HENDERSON S. V. B. CRUGER and methods adopted by the Company in recording its transactions and caring far the assets are entitled to commendatiOn’. ‘- All of which' is respectfully submitted NEW YORK, J anuai y 21,1898. ELBRIDGE T. GERRY J. HOBART HERRICK JAMES C. HOEDEN Board of Trustees- FREDEBIO CROMWELL ' JULIEN T. DAVIES ' A. N. WATERHOUSE S. V. R. CRUGER CHABLas R. HENDERsox 'Ruros W. PECKHAM J. HOBART HERRICK Wu. P. DIXON ROBERT A. GRANNiss J NO. HENRY H. ROGERS THEODORE MOBFORD WILLIAM BABCOCK - STUYVESANT FISH AUGD‘STUS D. JUILLIABD Cmsnns E. MILLER WALTER B GILLETTE H. WALTER WEBB GEORGE G. HAVEN ADRIAN IsnLiit J 3. " GEORGE S. Bownom WILLIAM C. Wm'rss'y' WILLIAM ROCKEFELLEB . - JAMss N. J ABVIE (line D. DICKEY JR ELBRIDGE T. GERRY JAMES Sparse; W AUGBINOLOSS OROBERT A. GRANISS, “Vise—Freeident. ISAAC r. LLOYD, 2.1 Vice-President WILLIAM J. EASTON, Secretary. JOHN A. FONDA, Assistant Treasurer. WILLIAM P. SANDS, Cashier. CHARLES A, PRELLER, Auditor. C. CLIFFORD GRETSINGER, As-Jistant Auditor. WALTER R. GILLETTE, General Manager. DUEB du—P. BRECK, Corresponding Secretary ALBERT KLAMROTH, Assistant Secretary, FREDERIC CROMWELL, Treasurer. ‘ JAMES TIMPSON 2d Assistant Treasurer. EDWARD P. HOLDEN, Assistant Cashier. EMORY MCCLINTOCK, Actuary. JOHN TATLOCK, JR, Assistant Actuary. WILLIAM W. RICHARDS, Comptroller. HENRY S. BROWN, Assistant Comptrolle: JOHN C. ELLIOT, Superintendent of Domestic Agencies. ED W ARD LYMAN SHORT. General Solicitor. MEDICAL DIRECTORS: ELIASJ. MARSH, M. D- G. S. WINSTONM. D. GRANVILLE M WHITE. M D Consulting. NICHOLS S GILBEET, General Agents. A. H. CAME, Local Agent. 11,469,406 24' A. N. WATERHOUSE' .\._._-‘...._ . ~-. 1, 1.1