(mo. 'eltsritasader comes the
‘ alsrthiah impulse”
greet
.bisdsywerseerssdapon it. One
’uid‘Whmlrndthshoohsonsci-
eooeaadhlsterywhiethal
bimeeitas-‘uehaibolasaoyman.
For his wits was one who iollowed her
husband’s every motion with the green
eyes or Jealousy. file would not trav~
dwithhimibrshadialihedtheitin-
srancy system. But wherever he went
he was liable to see her stick her
head in the carriage window to give
those green eyes a chance to discover
iihehadanyothestravsllngcompsn-
ion. Finally she left him. Wesley
bore it philosophically. saying that he
ain't send her and he wouldn‘t hollow
to bring her back.
“In the church and out of the church
are heaped up the purest arrange-
ments of marital loves: but heaped up
also are these unfortunate marital ar-
. rsngements which we dud in every
land under the sun. What is it that
renders so many marriages unhappy?
First. very largely. it is the deceit of
courtship. Perhaps you will thing i
smapesslmistendbearlughsrdona
great many: but true it is that court-
ship is a period oi deception. The
young men who is trying for a girl
brooks no dlmcultles. Too often he
is williw to be either a saint or a
devil on demand. He will sometimes
. a pious church member. appar-
.. tor thenkedgstting agood
girl. Courtship is a period oi decep.
lid on the part of theyoung woman.
‘olhtlm .as well seen that of the
men.
knew a case which illustrates this
occurred in Brooklyn. The
wassgoodgiriaadislthiul toall
ot her heme and church.
, ‘ * Ian-he the young an sp-
a peered to be all right. They had not.
I type however. been married more than
. three weeks when he came hmne with
“When Ir. Bro called to see the truth of intoxicating liquor evi-
‘ibe women who became his dent on his person. Never. in all the
with she repulsed nus. ,ss she months and years which she had
said. she was so lnviid. For many known him. had he ever beiore on-
years she had been one of the ‘shut- tered her presence beefing the per-
ine.’ yet llr. Browning persisted and tune of liquor. Three weeks after
‘ won her in spite 0! “double and in marriage he did so. Three months
spite oi her tather'siasulting oppoai— otter he came home angering drunk.
lion. Wards. as his wile. she Three years after she lay in her grave.
said thahno one now his chang- cent there by his perldy. Real life had
in moods as she could. tor she 'iived burst upon her all too suddenly. and.
inside him where she could hear him though she was a girl oi a genuine
breethe.’ This (decline of the Christian character. it was too much
leanings illustrates. perhaps. the ior her. Alas! her doom came and
purest. highest love that we know any— she couldn't stand up under it.
this. allout'today. "There are cases at deception on the
, “There is an incident in the lite of other side. Jacob courted Rachel ior
Hawthorne. the author of ‘The Scarlet aeveu years. His father~lu-iaw. de-
letior‘ and other new works. which ceivod him and he found that he had
shows what a wife can do and lllus- married Leah. Many a man has t~ouri~
trains s iortunate marital espsrlsm ed Rachel and married Leah; that the
Hawthorne had lost his position and girl is not what she seemed. Things
came home one day with his heart glide along nicely and smoothly dur-
aehlag sad heavy. His wits saw it,, log courtship: when that particular
hilt she knew enough not to ash him period is over and the parties have had
questions ehs hided her time. Pretty lime to cool down to business it len'l
soon he said. 'Dsar wife. 1 have been always so delightful.
lie said:
And I have
discharpd from my position‘ She "A man and his wile bad Just quar~
didn't!“ illlehp. went out and reled. The man had given up. ior be
got some hindl lit the lire. couldn't get ahead of her tongue. Hut
and made the and cosy pointing to the cat and the dog. who
and inviting and set 'l‘hso were sitllu compiaceotly together on
she pill. her _ ‘ oi. \Vthorne's the hearth. he said: “Why can't we.
shoulder. ‘lt is" ‘ time in your live in the same humour and peace
lids you have had yder
Wits!
she said: ‘uow write your book: That
was how Hawthoroe‘s wile rose to the
pension lie did as.- ahs beds him.
and wrote “The Bullet teller."
'm one has add. ‘A man's wits
a little ill M‘ Add it is very
appreciate the truth of it.
so they do? "l'ie them together end
then see.‘ replied his wife.
“That is what makes the diiferenco,
the being tied mother. But ii we
have made a bad bargain in the lush
rllnonlai market. or mini: we have.
which is much the same' thing. how
shell we malte the beat of it?
I would recommend three rules for
malllug the best oi it. the lirsl. culvio
rate silence at the right time.
The second rule tor matrimonial
happiness is a mutual iorbearaeee.
The third rule is: Never both get
angry at the same time.
The mMsfl part oi the service was
worthy of spatial mention. “Jerusa-
lem." i'erhsrrlless. was a beautiful
thing beautihdy rendered by the sear-
istte. ‘l‘hs sole. 'liarit. the llsaveas
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Wet. but Wises-lbw tui- Tiiueiiness and Wisdom of the One
The . m and historians ,
and the Evils oi the Other
discussed.
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THE CUBAN _ lNSURRECTiON.
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Washington. D. (3., Dec. 6.-—Preai-
dent licKiuley today sent his annual
message to Congress. lie congratu-
lates it upon assembling under felici-
tous conditions. Peace and good will
with all nations on the earth continue
unbroken. he says. and we should (eel
genuine satisfaction ,at the grueling
spirit oi internal regard and unlice—
tion in all section oi our country. and
the lilting of great public questions
above party prejhdlce.
Beginning with the subject of nosn‘
cos. the president says that while the
lull elect of the legislation of the
extra session has not been realised.
what it has already accomplished as-
aurca us oi its timeliness and wisdom.
To test its permanent value iurther
time will be required. end the people.
satisfied with its operation and results
thus far. are in no mind to withhold
from it a fair trial.
The next question pressing for con-
alderstion is that of“ the currency.
With the great resources of the gov-
ernment and the honorable example of
the pastbei‘ore us. weought not to
hesitate to enter upon a currency re-
vision which will make our demand
obligations less onerous to the overn-
ment and relieve our fluent: laws
irom ambiguity and doubt. The evil
of the present system ie touud in the
great cost to the government of main-
taining at parity with '9!th tiller»
out a of mpney and . smart, e
«newline past (our years have dem-
onstrated that this is not only an en-
pensive charge upon the government.
but a dangerous menace to our nation-
al credit. it is manifest that we must
devise some plan to protect the gov-
crnmeut against bond issues (or re-
peated redemptions. We have nine
hundred mlllioua of currency. which
the government by solemn enactment
has undertaken to keep at par and no-
body ie obliged to redeem in gold but
the government. which must borrow
the gold. The law which requires the
payment out oi lbetreaaury oi re.
deemed United States notes demandu a
transient replenishment oi the gold re-
servc. especially in times oi psuir and
insumcieut revenue. and during the
preceding administration. ”62.-
432.000 tour and a hall per
vent. bonds were issued and sold to
maintain the gold reserve and pay the
oxpenaea oi the govurnmcnt in exccea
of revenue. While it is true that a
greater portion oi thin was blind to
uupply deficient revenuou. a coiwider~
hie portion was required to maintain
the gold reaerve. it no further legiolu-
lion in to be bad in correct title. and
the policy of rolling bonds ill to be
continued. then (longreas should give
the secretary oi the tmasury author-
ity to sell bonds at long or short pe-
riods bearing a lesa rate oi interest
than Is now authorismi by law. The
president says: "i earnestly recon»
mood that as soon as the receipts oi
the government are quite suillrient in
pay all the eapenaea oi the serum
ment that when any United States
notes are presented ior redemption in
gold and are redeemed in gold. such
notes shall be kept and set apart and
only paid out in exchange ior gold.
This Is an obvious duty ii the holder
oi the United litatea notes psreiers the
sold and gets it item the government.
he should not receive back from the
governments United iliaies note with-
out paying gold in exchange tor it."
That amounts. to the president's
mind. to giving an latersslabearing
debt. at government bond. tor a soa-
iaterssl hearing debt oi the United
mates uois. The government sbwld
be relieved (root the burden oi privi~
lsge all the gold required lot or
changes and esports. This will to
be stopped. With an we at prosper~
lty and suflelset receipts we may feel
no immediate «Wt. but the
denser will ever he i. .
The president invites csrslul consid-
nadonuithsdstailsdplsacitheswe
rstsryoilhstrseeurytoprotectths
gold reserve. lie more with the
secretary.
‘i‘erslugtoioruiaaslairsihsprsai-
destdsvotsswushspesslehisiss-
sagstoaeoasiderstlsseithstiabae
susstioe.welee.hsssys.isteswost
lmtmwith which our
‘ullion oi belligerent-y would
suit. lust and.
to the Gullah
salted whether
tion should not
settlement audit
could not coll . ,
period tor the scuu'utpl
result. . 1 u‘ 4‘ ,. .
The Spanish reels iii Ir. Woodmrd.
was, in the prom"! Quintin the
direction oi a better underpinning.
changeolpolioy:
menus
within a reasonable tints. To this
end political refer-sis Mil be out late
cheat and military operations conduct-
ed on. humsne lines. it up wasted
that Spain be leit tree to conduct 'mll~
itary operations and stunt. political
reforms. while the United Stein. for
its part. should eaioros._asetrsl obli-
gationspud cut oi the eminence.
which the lawsuits. it‘wesemsrted.
received from this no” hit: and
complete purines“ hoped tor.
The president ‘ My out the
Spanish disposition to charge us with
failure to meet imai duties is
baseless. and points to the We this
government has made I. ti out Of
millions and by the Mt oi the
administrative ml _ d the use
tion to perform its in m. fie also
oaya that the tact sum ea-
beditlon or armed has lett our
shores hes been dip catty m
mind fie. . ' . Wit
throughout slit 3 and dan-
gers to our own peace \tlle United
States has never abrolated its debt
to determine Its policy as to Cuba. the
president points out that of untried
measures there remain only-mummi-
lion oi the insurgents es bollqercnle.
recognition oi the independence oi
(lube. neutral intervention to end the
war by imposing a rational compro-
miae between the contestants. inter-
vention in favor of one or thr- other
party.
lie said: "i speult not of forcible an-
nexation. (or that cannot be thought
oi. That. by our mde of morality.
would be criminal oggresalou."
Taking up the question of belligi-h
envy. the president dilutes at length
from President Grant's message oi
December 7. lil'ifi. wherein he declared
that the conditions in Cuba warrsnied
neither the recognition oi independ-
iiuu oi the luaureenls on belligerenlo.
vy. lie adds that. moreover. a rerogv
outlier
upon neither parly lo the conflict a
utslus not iheretuiorc actually pea.
wooed. while it Would weigh heavily
In Spain's behuli. giving her the right
of noun-ll on the high ma nud vs~
lending licr maritime right» to the
tonight in! our territorial Wltlcrs.
"For those reasons." ililt'li lb:- pruah
dent. "i regard the.- rel'lllllllitm oi "Iii
bolligerenry oi the (luban maul-cunts
as now unwise and thereiorc iuuilmia-
alblo. illuuild that plop humiior be
deemed wise se a mutter of right and
duty. the executive will (site it.
tie points to the hopeful change in
the Spanish policy. to the pledge oi re-
form. and to the abalonleuia oi the
horrors oi war as reasons against luv
torrentqu on humanitarian grounds.
The llrut acts oi the new government
lie in the honorable path it has out-
lined. The policy of extermination
has been reversed; broad clement-lea
proiiersd; measures havo been telleu
to relieve the horrors oi starvation.
The power of the ilpaulsb armies. ii is
asserted. is to be used not to spread
ruin and desolation. but to pullout the
resumption oi agricultural industries
The president sketches the summary
scheme oi the spaniel: comment.
and says it is honestly due to lpalu
that she should be given a reasonable
chance to realise her aspectstloaa and
mamsthsasssrtedslheleueyoithe
new order at things to which she
stands irrevocably committed. its
points to the many mm already
loads. to the manipulation oi the hem»
his order at mimics. to the re-
‘a’hout as interesting!
trey Hunter is said to be likewise sc-
ereeoeeiouoeeersssmoerotm ' ”
Greater Republic. and his ease is
awaiting nubile action.
The Niosrsgua canal is spoken oi as
at large importance to our country.
and the promise is mailed farther
mimic the subject when the re-
port at the-commission now at work
is sent to Congress; '
The president I!!! at the interns-
tlonsl monetary commission that. not
withstanding dinigeot slot-t. the ea-'
voya have failed enter to secure an
agreement. (indication is «messed
at the action oi France in this matter
loioinlngieourefiomudltiasaid
that the motlations are still pending.
sleapwhiie the uvoys have not made
their final report. helieveiag that the
fiubts raised in certain denture re-
specting the feasibility of maintaining
a parity bstwssa gold and silver may
yet be solved. The president earnest-
ly hopesthetthstrlshorsnlsy brine
Mot.
llr.Kssson.oiiowa.iseaidtobe
pow conductingnuotiations with sev-
eral governments tor reciprocity ar-
rangements under the tariii'act. and it
is believed that by a. careful exercise
at the powers conferred by the act.
some grievances of our own and other
countries in our mutual trade rela-
tions may be removed or alleviated.
and the volume at our commercial ex-
changes enlarged. The president ear-
nestly urges the improvement oi our
merchant marine. the lulerlorlty of
which. he says, in humiliating lo the
national pride.
Reierence la made to the rel-out mu—
ierrure at Washington on the whim-i
oi the protection oi anal life. the rcn
suit of which placed beyond contro-
versy. it is sold. the dilly oi the gov-
ernments concerned to adopt mess-
uree without delay for the preserva-
tion of the herds. Negolinliona to
lhia end or:' now in progress.
lnlernulionai arbitration in iii’s‘litii-‘il
by the president to represent the heel
sentiment oi the civilised world. and
ireaiieu emlmdying the humane priu-n
«mice on broad lime without in any
way imperilliug our interests or hou-
m- will have his constant nitrous-umL
moni.
A liberal appropriation la bespolton
in order that the l'nlled illuiea may
moire u crrulilublo exhibit at the up-
proarhing l‘srie Mimilloii. in which
the groupie have shown an unprece-
dented interest.
Under the head oi the navy. the
president points to the normally tor
speedy legislation to procure the arm-
or for the three listiieahips now bulld-
Ing which would be otherwise useless.
lie speaks in terms of praise oi the
quality oi our ships. and thinlts that
the time has now arrived when the
increase to which the country is clim-
mitled should latte the term of in-
creased isollltiea commensurate with
the increase in our naval vessels. lie
rulers lo the lack oi docile. and urges
that three or tour oi the largest docks
he provided on the Missile. and at
least one as the Pacino met. and a
iioaiieg dock in the gulf. There
should he also aalple provision lot
munitions oi war and as increase at
odious sad enlisted men. Additions
sreelaosseessary iotlieasvy yards
end. as titers are now on the stochs
In large institutes. it is muses»
evil that as appropriation he leads
tor but use more battleship on the
Facile coast deversi torpedo beats
are sleo emery.
Attention is called to the used tor
prowl! icislstioo do to Masha all to
the tempura oi civil authority with
is the territory. There are seed int
surveys and for the establishment oi
secular lass odes at some point in
the Yaltea valley. tor which as apple
sciatica is sakes. mitten terse is
tire debt. MIN!!! Ind intend.
. The presidaw t devotes the last chap-
tsrof hismessagslotheeivilssrvics.
the mention! illprom t of which
bessynhsdoagbssaesuflsct" ‘ot
earnest disco-ion. and wfl‘_ has of
late years. received W legisla-
tive and executive appswvsi.‘ , ,
the past few months “equine has
issue
vanes has been-ails by a bean
lag hetero dismissal upon ’ ‘ cases
where incompetence is charged or de-
mand made tor the runvsi oi‘ Mia.
This last has been done withou in:
pairing thencwerotremofionsot
the vital safeguarded the Mt.“
Museum sees
Much remains to he done hetero the ‘
eyaiem can be perfected and the pres-
ident says that he dell nut hesitate
to exempt «me which he thinks have
been improperly included in the clae~
oiled service or include those which,
in his judgment. will best promote
the public aervlce. The system has
the approval oi the people. and it will
In- blu endeavor to uphold and extend
ii.
in conclusion the prealdent udmou»
lelicu (‘ongreeu lot to now the
increase at the estimates for the stain-
lenance oi the government. They
should admit oi decrease ill many
branches. and it is s commanding duty
to keep the appropriations within the
l‘i'l't‘illlli oi the government uud thus
ovoid doilrit.
THE WAY TO MAKE TEA.
it Should Never lie Rolled and is Best
Token without Cream.
Mra. ii. T. liorer writes oi tea. coi-
iee. (ms and chocolate in her cook-
ing lesson in the December Ladies'
Home Journal. in telling how to best
prepare lea. she points out that "tan-
ulu. lbo objectionable ingredient at
tea. in more thoroughly dissolved by
boiling. To get the least “pain. we
must then avoid boiling the tea. ”The
machine-picked teas are undoubtedly
more wholesome than the ”sol-
ored lessor those dried on copper
pistes. Frequently. “pensive teas-
those sold at from Old to ill a pound
are not so healthiul as the cheaper
black less sold at a dollar. Tea should
be taken clear. or with very little su-
beisheuwithslisersedsisam.hat
lessnoi think efs iaon lsillrloes or
psruleiouslishitiheelhemei
metastases-doses. at
stasiioetiou.ilus dream m
fermentation. .
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daily. [Alloy Adele.
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“Place the table tor the _ »
dinner in the center oi fie. “ *
der the chandelier. litters . ‘
see tillt it Is ”My '
leaves well Ittsd." m
llorer in the Bees-H ,
Journal. "From the . .
a large spray oi elm
with scarlet ribbon. ll
turner. bleeding all the ‘
decorating. (lover the _
a heavy Mics lsassi . ‘ ,
over it the spotless i
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