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ynoitt ,'r_m:_ nosron irANxnE.
inner IS LIFE :2
SAY, what is Life -3 it is a dream,
‘ Which fliefsfiat morning-’s early glow-'3
’Tis like the ‘rapid mottntaln-stream;
\Vhich seeks the silent vale below.
T is like that lonely, lovely llower,*
‘Which-'ust e-xpands‘ and fades away—‘-
’Tis liket e early summer shower,
Exhal’d from every glittering sprays

"l‘is “ erroris unavailing sleep,”-—
A vision, transient as the hue

Of that bright bow, whose brilllant_swcep
Gilds the fair arch of heavenly blue.

Then, Man, frail creature of a day,

- VVhy to perform t-hy dut y loath 1’
‘Why waste the precious hour away ?—"- _
Rouse from thy dream of mentalcsloth 1

The night shall come-’—that night of gloom
Shall wrap thee in its clarksome ‘shroud 1-'4

But there’s a LIGHT shall pierce the tomb,
And scatter every sombre cloud.

It is THE nav which’be'a_ms on high,

To guide us through the last dread strife—
It shows the portals of the sky——

It is th’ ETERNAL LIGHT or LIFE !

. F1.o‘iu.uv.

*7‘/ze nig/it-bloonzing Ceres.

Miscellany. I

FROM THE VILLAGE itncoitn.

THE SPECULATOR.s
' The, Three Visits.

"l"‘”*‘*"-‘I’-"-"9"-‘l-i His forehead was high-'--his eye
bright, but rather sprightly than piercing ; when
silent there was much dignity in his looks for one
so young, but when he spoke a charming‘ smile
played about his mouth, and his accents were ve-
ry engaging ; of the middle height and well pro-
portions-tl, his figure was manly, but when he ad-
vocated the cause of virtue, or spoke of the
wrongs of the oppressor, his form seemed to rise
into a majestic height, and his eye to irradiate liv-
ing beams. _ _

On my first vlsithe had cornpletctl his 24th
year ; and in that very week he led to the altar a
maiden altogether worthy of him. , The girls all
said that he was the handsomest of the two, con-
gratulated Mary with much seeming pleasure on
her marriage ; but it was plain that most of them
envied her the happiness.

Though bountiful to the poor, and free to o-
blige, hi's fortune was above all fear of want ; and
his profession (for besides being an accomplisliecl
scholar he had perfected ‘himself in the science
of medicine) was a sure resource against embar-
rassment. _ _

Henry, in truth had the good wishes of every
hotly. The snalty vipers of envy toiled them-
selves in silence, and I left Oatland with the im-
pression that Henry Fairfax and Mary Plum-
wortli were the happiest couple that ever were
married. ,

It was just ten years from the wedding, when
business and pleasure led me again to Oatland.-=-
I had heard little of Fairfax for some years, but

I I did not doubt but that I should find him, main-

taining the station which was promised by his
dearning, virtues and talents. It was evening
when I arrived. The bar room of the tavern
was full, and among the most noisy I beheld a
short, fat, jolly-looking,‘ red-nosed man, very lo-
quacious, sometimes witty, often lOOllSl‘l and quite
inebriated. It was sometime, and with difficulty,
that in this being I could make out the form and
features of the once noble Fairfax. After some
time, recognizing me, he apologized for the sit-
uation I found him in ; said he had been taking a
social glasstoo much with a friend, and soon
withdrew. The next day his wife and children
passed to church. 'i‘_he‘lovely features of the
mother were clouded with woe ; 1183!‘!-Sick at 3
beloved husband’s treachery to himself, now
ranging on the verge of cruelty and Crime» lflllle
abandonment of her and her little ones, the rose
had faded on her cheek, and her eye beams--not

thc smile of happiness and pleasure, but the por-_

tentuous ray of approaching dissolution.

, The last time of my being at Oatland was in
the fall of 1817. Eight years had only interve-
ned, since my previous visit. The. tale is now
short and my reader I‘dare say anticipates the re-
sult. He sees Mary no more, but reads the epi-
taph on her grave-stone.’ ‘He beholds their eld-
est daughtenilovely in ruins, unprotected by a
father I a prey to a villain. Henry himself a
nauseous -hulk of apimated pestilence. For
once reader you are mistaken. True the height
was easy of descent and difficult to regain ;.but
a determined resolution of a strong mind, aided
by a firm reliance on heaven». ma)’ 3CC°_ml’ll5h
purposes which to the weak are impossible.-—
Let the train of thoughtless folly go, P6l‘.l$h and
be forgotten. Let the intelligent, the wise, the
sound of mind and strong of purposes W110 133V}?
for amoment aberratedfrom the path of recti-
tude, learn lromliarry Fairfax, the road to safe-
ty, to usefulness, to honor. 1 ., I

"In a lucid interval Henry took a resolution, not
‘made with an oath, rashly, publicly: 0Sle"t"“1°“5‘
ly ; but with his own heart FIRMLY, and resolv-
ed to drink no more. He avoided the temptation
-.--devoted himself to -business‘—-‘sought ‘in the
happiness of his wife, the education of his chil-
dren, and his books, for that happiness Wlllfillgllfi
had been long vainlypursumg in the frenzied
cup of inebriation. His health became restored-
The rose resumed its blush on the check of l_Vla-
;-,y.._|,i5 sons and his tlaughters are rising into
life" with high promise around _h".n’ ’:"d h_‘s
friends enjoying the pleasure of sceingthe smoke
brightening into flame,’ seem to lovehim as one
arisen from the'dead-

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Some persons who have great 8513355 left
themgbreakfast in plenty, dine in poverty, and
sup in infamy. ’

 

__ From the Analedtic Magazine. ,

Young women of fortune, who are above the
necessity of labouring, are, for the most part,
bgought up among us in America, with-an utter
ignorance and disregard to everyhspeciesc of do-
mestic usefulness and economy. They flare a-
way, and sport the summer of life, which lasts
while the labour of the parent can administer to
their extravagance_: and when he dies, becomes
dependants on some brother, or married sister,
for the rest of their lives; or in failure of that,
retire to board in some cheap country village,
become exceedingly pious,’,and wi-thall a little
scandalous—-and take huff at all mankind. There
are but few youngumen in our country that can
afford to support an extravagant wife, who does
not bring the means of supplying her own ficti-
tious wants, and this is the reason why there are
such swarms of our blooming damsels withering
in the streets of our cities, and such an alarming
crop of old maids by brcvet, who are preparing
themselves for-"what is to come, by studying the
balance of comfort, and deriving consolation from
the single blessédncss of good Mrs. Charleton,
and little Miss Amy Finch. As staunch friends
to the gen_tle sex, we would advise them forth-
with to begin the study and the practice ofawell
regulated econorny—-to think sometimes of sav-
ing as well as spending-and, above all, to dress
according to their means antl situation. ,They
will attract the regard of prudent and reflecting
young men, who seek the choicest gem of life
in a gentle, modest, economical wife--they will
bring and receive blessings in that state, to which
reason and nature have assigned the performance
of woman’s beauties,‘ and the enjoyment of her
happiness—the country will be enriched by new
citizens, educated by such mothers—and the dan-
dies and corset trammellcd beaux may exhibit

I their thin waists, and thick legs, at tea parties in

vain.
--CO&—-
FROM THE nosros GAZETTE.‘
‘HE CASUAL REMARKER.

'W'hoever considers society as it exists in this
country, will observe the effect of government on
the minds and habits of the people. The consti-
tutions of the States, declaring ‘all men equal in
their rights, opentlie avenues of office and dis-
tinction to everyycitizen; and opulence, oftcii ac-
quired by men once poor and obscure, places its
possessor in the first circles of fashionable life.
The result accordingly is, that the general prog-
ress of families is upwards ; the fathers educate
their children for stations and professions above
their own. The chimney-swee.per’s son be-
comes a brick-layer, and builds the chimnies his
father sweeps ; the cohler’s offspring not unfr-.-.-
qucntly undertakes the affairs of state. Some
inconvenience arises from this ambition ; there
is too much pushing upward ; the learned pro-
fessions become crouded; there are more mer-
chants than capital, more gentlemen than arti-
sans, more officers than soldiers or seamen, more
pretensions than merit. Look into the families
of any dozenaged mechanics you may happen to
know; you will see more than one of their chil-

dren spoil’d perhaps irretrievably ruined, by this‘
‘anlbition of advancement to genteel lifc.

- -Tlrc-so
high minded sons disdain the vulgar but honest
employment of their fathers, their unfashiona-
ble dress, plain food and homely manners; they
aspire to be gentlemen and to more respectable
modes, of getting and enjoying a living; they
make the experiment ; from want of skill, ofin-
dtistry, economy, or of capital, they do not suc-
ceed ; and now from pride, indolent habits or ig-
norance, they cannot resort to meaner employ-
ments; they become incapable of supporting
themselves, and hang like dead weights upon
their friends. Sometimes a whole family has
been reduced to want, by the attempt to uphold
the pretensions of these would-be-gentlemen.-..

But it is not my desire to check the order of hon-V
orable distinction, or the efforts which industry, ‘

enterprize or merit‘ make, to attain the honours
of life, or acquire the enjoyments and independ-
ence of wealth; my endeavour is to persuade
those young men, (and there are too many of
them among us) who have made the attempt and
failed, and now are wandering, extravagant idlers,
dressed in costly apparel, thronging fashionable
places, wasters of time and money not their own,
and continually intruders "where they are not
wanted, to consider the despicable figure they
make, the sufferings ofthcir family for their sake,
the folly of their conduct, inevitably» leading to
disgrace and misery and their dishonorable de-
pendence on poor parents or credulous trades-
men. Would they in an hour of cool reflection
justly appreciate the rank they holdin the pub-
lic estimation, shame would drive them to some
useful employment. They would no longer be
seen in the haunts of.,loungers, annoying Ladies;
their names would no longer be written in the
“ liallcndei‘ of Debtors;” their awakened con-
science would goad them to some honest and
profitable labour. VVe should no more see law-
yers without clients, merchants without goods,
ollicers without commands, physicians without
employment, or literati without knowledge. An

unsuccessful lawyer might make a useful mer-‘t

chant, notary or sheriff; a broken merchant

might become an able broker, master of a ship,-

or a skilful supercargo ; indeed if people were
willing to lower their minds to their circumstan-
ces, honorable employ ment of a profitable nature
might be found in our happy country for every
one. None need be idle ; in the last resort, cur
new lands may employ our surplus population
fottrcentyuries to come. Let then our would-be-
gentlemen give up pretensions they cannot main-
tain ;.let a,mbition* after her repulse, submit to
fate, and be content to labor in that sphere ofclife
which fortune prescribed. If bad calculatiops
have been made, if-a_/Zzux-jlas has._been commit-
ted, indolence, extravagance, ingratitude, false

shame or despair, will not avert the baleful con--

sequences ; vigorous efforts, enterprize, change
of means or professions, prudencemay be suc-
cessful. If in the first path of life you pursued,
you cannot obtain honor or'in‘tlependence, quit it ;
try another, not so elevated, or more promising.

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.the heat of the daymay have dissolved.

‘Waste not your tirnein stre'et=loung"ing‘; mod-
erate your expences; reflect-—'that only things‘
of use are naturally’ honorable—-that no one was
born to do nothcing-"-that industry usually carries
its own reward; and slothfulness its own -.sting—-
that a man in debt has no right toa shilling that
comes into his possession:-—and that impoverish-
ing parents and friends, and defraudingvtailors and
work people, are yet ‘contemptihle vices in the
world’s estimation. '

I shall conclude with remarking, that too much
credit is given in this country ; it is too easy to
get into debt," and that it would be better both
for Debtors and Creditors if it were otherwise.

Be studious, and you will be learned. Be in-
dustrious and frugal,vand you will be rich. Be
sober and temperate, and you will be healthy.
Be virtuous, and you will be happy.

Half the_mi'series of the human mind might
be extinguished, would man alleviate the calam-
ities which the whole human race‘ are heirs to,
by mutual offices of compassion and benevolence.
Such offices, in many cases, however, can consist
of nothing more than kind looks and soothing
expressions of sympathy, which are like balm
of Gilead to a wounded spirit : they cost the giv-
er nothing, although they are often more.pre_-
cious than pearls of great price to the receiver.

He who is dignified without ostentation, and
modest without embarrassment; concilliating
without crouching, and easy without familiarity,
is flying to respect and honour upon the wings
of an Eagle.-

He who-indulges his fancy in groundless vis-
ions, will,in time, make a hopeful liar.

Sir Thomas Mare.-—-The celebarted Sir Thom-
as More was sent ambassador-to the emperor, by
king Henry VIII. The morning he was to have
his audience, knowing the-power of wine, he or-
dered his servant ttflgive hima good large glass
of sack ; and having drank that, called for anoth-
er ; the servant with olficious ignorance, would
have dissuaded him from it, but in vain ; the am-
bassador demanded ‘a third, which he likewise
drank olf:_ins_is‘tingon a fourth, he was over,-‘
perstiaded by 5' his servant to let it alone---so he
went to his audience; but when he returnedhome
he called his man, and threatened him with his
cane ! “ You rogue !” said he, “ what mischief
you have done me-: I spoke to the emperor on
the inspiration of those three glasses I drank;
he told me I was lit to govern three parts of the
world. Now, you dog I if I had drank the fourth
glass, I should have been fit to govern all the
world 1”

—--at-.-3';-db-"-'-

Stra7zg'e induufmcnt to commz‘t.mur(Ier.-—About
threc.o’clock on Tuesday afternoon, a respecta-
ble looking man, about 45 years of age went in-
to the shop of James Ripley, residing in Portland
roa-d and waited until he found the barber alone 5
he took his handkerchief from his neck, opened
his shirt collar, and sat down on the chair as if to
be shaved. VVhilst the barber stood over him
with his razor in hishand read}: to begin the op-
eration,'the stranger interrupted him, and pull-
ing out a handful of bank-notes, he thus address-
ed the barber :—‘ See these notes, there is as
much here as will make you comfortable for life ;
to me they. are useless ; you have a family to
provide for, I have no person living to look to, or
that cares for me : do not be alarmed at what I
am going to propose to you, you run no danger,
and will have nothing to account for; I am wea-
ry of life and do not wish to commit suicide, and
if my body be buried in the cross road I do not
care ; take your razor, be not afraid, and whilst I
am reading the paper cut my throat ; do not start ;
give the alarm and say I did it; here, first go
and conceal these notes, do not tremble, be reso-
lute; to save you from blame go gefme a sheet
of paper, pen and ink, as if I wanted to write a
letter, and I will write on it, that I came into your
shop with the determined purpose of cutting my
own throat, this will be found in my pocket, and
consequently clear you.’ The poor barber was
panic struck, and could not speak, he ran out to
call a constable, and give the alarm ; in the mean
time his strange visitor departed, and he has not
since been heard of.-—Lomlon /za/zer, Jug. 22.

Moralist.

Extract from the Rev. B. ,ALLISON’S Serinons.

There is an ‘ even-tide,’ in the day, an hour
when the sun retires, and the shadows fall, and
when nature assumes the appearance of sober-
ness and silence. It is an hour from which every
where the thoughtless fly, as coupled only, in
their imagination, with images of gloom : It is
the hour, on the other hand, which, in every age,
the wise have loved,as bringing with it sentiments
and affections more valuable than all the splen-
dors of the day. 

Its first impression is to still all the turbulence
of thought or of passion, which the day may have
brought forth. We follow with our eye the de-
scending sun ; we listen to the decaying sounds
of labor and of toil—and, when all the fields are
suent around us, we feel a kindred stillness to
breathe upon our souls, and to calm them from
the agitations of society. From this first impres-
sion, there is a second, which naturally follows
it ; In the day we are liying with men-—in the
6 ,,,,m.tide’ we begin to live with nature ; We.see
the world withdrawn from us—-the shades of night
darken over the habitations of men, and ‘V3 feel
ourselves alone. It is an hour, fitted, as it would
seem, by Him who made us,to still, but with gen-
tle hand, the throb of every unruly passion, and
the ardour of every impure desire ; and while it
veils for a time the world that misleads us, to awa-
ken in ourhearts those legitimate affections which
There
is yet a farther scene it presents to us-—while the
world withdraws from us, and while the shades
of the evening darken upon our dwellings, the
splendors of the firrnament come forward to our
view. In the moments when earth is overshad-

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owed, heaven opensto our eyes the radiance oils
sublimer-being; our hearts follow the sticcegsive
splendors of the scene; and while we forget, for
a time, the obscurity of earthly concerns, we

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feel that there are ‘ yet greater things than these.’ A

There is, in the second place, an ‘ e-om-tide’ in
the year—-a season wheh the sun withdraws his
propitiouslight ; when the winds arise, theleaves
fall, and nature around us seems to sink into_de-
cay-. It is said, in general, to be the season of
melancholy ; and if bythis word he meant that
it is the time of solemn and serious thought, it
undoubtedly is the season of melancholy :' yet it
is a melancholy so soothing, so gentle in its ap-_
P1‘03<‘-lb and so prophetic in its influence, that
they who have known it; feel, as instinctively, that
it is the doing of God, and that the heart of man
is not thus finely touched, but to fine issues. '



VVhen we go out into the fields in the evening 

of the year, adifferent voice approaches us. We
regard, even in spite of ourselves, the still but
steady advances of time. A few days ago, and
the summer of the year was grateful, and every
element _was.filled with life, and the sun of -heaven

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seemed to glory in his ascendant. He is now- 

more heard among the branches; and the earth.
is strewed with that foilage which once bespoke
the magnificence of summer. ' fWbatever may,

be the passions which has awakened, we-‘..'pau'5e I

amid this app_arent.desolation of nature. ‘ VVe sit
down in the" lodge my z/tezuayfariizg inaizin me.
,'zL'1'ld.‘,‘7'ne88,” and}; e.§fe;"l,,,that all wewitness is the
einhlem“of our§.?‘oiyhilfat:§._ Such also, in .a few-.
years, will be our own condition. The blossoms.
of our spring, the pride of our summer, will al-
so fade into decay ; and the pulse that nowbeats
high with.vir.tu'ous pr with vicious,glesire,Will grad-
dually‘sJin‘l§,-’and'then stop forev$:r.; I _W“e~rise'.fror'n

our iiiédilations with hearts softenetl and sit-bdded, _

and,,we.return into life as into a" shadowy scene,

-\vhet'ecw;c_ have ‘ disquiet£(l ourselves in -’u‘az'n..’ 

Yet:“f.i«t_7:few years,‘ we think, and all that now

-enfeebled in his power ;» the desert no niore;,.J;'.]
‘ blossoms like the rose ;’ the song of joy is no.1

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bless, or all tliatnow convulse humanity, will a]; 1 , - E

 -‘so have perished: The mightiest ‘pageantry :5,"

life will pass--the loudest notes o‘f-;u-imnph orof
conquest will be-silent. in -the grave ;-—-the wick.
ed, wherever active, ‘will cease from troubling,’
and the weary, wherever suffering, ¢ will bc at
-rest.’. Under an impression so profound, we feel
our hearts better. Thecares, the animosities,
the hatreds, which society may have engendered,.
sink, unperceived, from our bosoms. In the gen-
eral desolation of nature, we feel the littleness-
of our passions; we look forward to that kindred

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evening which time must bring to all ; we anti.‘-
cipate the graves of those we hate and of those “

we love. Every unkind passion falls with the
leaves that fall around us ; and we return slowly
to our homes, and to-the society which surrounds
us, with the wish only to enlighten or to bless
them. * i I ‘ '

There is an even tide in human life ; a season

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when the eye becomes dim,‘ and the strength de- ‘

cays, and when the winter of agebegins to shed,
upon the human liead,,its_‘ prophetic snow. It is-
the season of life to the present is most-
analagous; and much ifibecomes, and much it
would profit you, my elder. brethren-,;-" Q, may};
the instructions which the season brink’ .7 The
spring and the summer of your days are gone,
and with them not only the joys they knew, ‘but;
many of the friends who gave them. You have-
entered upon the autumn of yottr_,,bt_;i_n‘g ;. and,

 

whatever may have been the pt'offfsioft‘ of your’, '

summer, there is yet aseason of stillncss'and
solitude which the beneficence of Heaven-afl'ot’tls
you, in which you may meditate upon the past
and the future, and prepare yourselves for the
mighty change which you are soon to undergo.

‘In the long retrospect of your journey, you
have seen every day the shades of the evening
fall, and every year the clouds of winter gather.
But you have seen also, every succeeding day,
the morning arise in its brightness, and in every
succeeding year, spring return to renovate the
winter of nature. It is now you may understand
the magnificent language of Heaven. It min-
gles its voice with that of revelation—-it sum-
mons you in these hours, when the leaves fall,
and the winter is gathering, to that evening study‘
which the mercy of heaven has provided in the
book of salvation-: andwhile the shadowy valley
opens, which leads to the abode of death, it
speaks.of that hand which can comfort and can
save, and which can conduct to those ‘ green pas-i
tures and' those still waters,’ where there is an
eternal spring for the children of God.

 
 
 
 

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HES HILL.

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INFORMS the public that he still continues

the business of

Stone Cutting,

At his stand,,a few rods north of the bridge,‘

where may be had Stoneyofevery description, at

short notice._ He has just received a good as- ,:

sortment of Vfhite Marble, of an excellent qual-
ity, suitable for Head Stones, and keeps.cr-nstant-
ly on hand a general assortment of Scotch Grey,
and Jersey Free Stone, suitable for H€8l‘lh51
Chimney-pieces, Grave Stones, Sac.
Stone, of every description ; all of which will be
well finished, on terms as reasonable as can be
afforded by"any one in the county, those who are

‘in the habit of peddling their stone, not excepted.

Norwalk, June 3. - 5

Also, Soap, .

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