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stood as firmly, and was as plainly seen as a marble palace upon its founda-
tions. The beauties of his sermon were beauties of proportion and adapta-
tion— not artificial ornaments and flowers of speech. You were not carried
off in a balloon of rhetoric, or on a cloud of rainbow beauties : but you had
gone with him step by step, up the mountain side, you knew every foot of
the ascent, and you could look where he pointed, far above the petty pursuits
of life, to the pinnacles of faith and duty. How sublimely he celebrated the
ordinances and sacraments of the church. If you have seen him by the
sick bed of your dying children, as I have seen him beside mine in the very
ante-chamber of death, stretching out his arms repeating the solemn ser-
vice: ‘We receive this child into the congregation of Christ’s flock, and do
sign her with the sign of the cross;’ if you have clung to him for consolation
when your wife and children, in the chamber of another dying child, were
trembling and crying around you, and your own heart strings were breaking
with grief; if you have gone with him, been led, sustained and supported
by him to the grave of some dear one gone before you; if you have heard
from him, ‘I am the resurrection and the life.’ ‘Earth to earth, ashes to
ashes, dust to dust,’ if you have followed him through such scenes, then
cherish the memory of them in your hearts; you will never know the like
again.”
*Born in Greenwich, Conn, October 26, 1795; studied with Rev. Dr. Barry;
ordained deacon by Bishop Croes in Christ’s church, New Brunswick, N. J.,
January 6, 1824, and priest in 1825, by Bishop Hobart, of New York. He offici-
ated in Christ church, Mamaroneck; was rector of Grace church, White
Plains, 1824-6 and of Christ church, Reading, Penn., for a few months, and
of Trinity church, Philadelphia, 1826-36, and of St. Paul’s, Norwalk, from
1836 to 1879. He died suddenly on Thursday, July 17th, 1879, (the anniver-
sary of the death in 1836 of his former valued friend and counsellor, Rt. Rev.
William White) at a little after 5 o’clock in the afternoon. At a later hour the
bell in St. Paul’s tower tolled slowly his age, and as the tones were borne
solemnly out upon the evening air, announced to the people that their aged
rector and pastor and friend had departed. A meeting of the wardens and
vestry was summoned, and suitable action taken. The church was draped
with mourning and the funeral appointed for Wednesday of the following
week. The Bishop of the diocese spent the Sunday intervening in the par-
ish, and spake feelingly and eloquently to the bereaved flock. During the
morning of Wednesday, July 23d, the remains were seen by the Sunday
school of St. Paul’s and by many friends and visitors, and the funeral took
place in the church at two o’clock that afternoon. It was attended by the
Bishop of the diocese with a large number of the clergy, and by parishioners
and citizens in general. The committal office was read in the church and a
few collects at the tomb.
“ Thou shalt come to thy grave in a full age, like as a shock of corn com-
et h in its season .”
Calendar lesson at evening prayer for July ijth.
Mrs. Dr. Mead, (Miss Maria Harlan, of Philadelphia) was an invalid during
the latter portion of her life, and confined to the parsonage, and much of
the time to her room. At a previous period and before her sickness, she was
active, and especially among those who did not drink freely of the cup of
life’s comforts, and who keenly appreciated her delicate services of Chris-
tian sympathy and kindness. She died several years before her husband,
in April, 1875, and is buried in the Mead family tomb, a few feet south of
the church portals, but has by no means dropped out of the memory of
those who knew concerning her goodness and usefulness. Two of Dr. Mead’s
daughters survive him, Mrs. Samuel Tiffany, of Newark. N. J., and Miss Jane
Maria Mead, of Norwalk. Another daughter, the late Mrs. B. E. Staats, is
buried in St. Paul’s yard, and another, Mrs. Theodore Mead, is interred in
Greenwich.
The subjoined is an extract from Dr. Mead’s Twenty-Fifth Anniversary
discourse, delivered in St. Paul’s church on Sunday morning, July 7th, 1861,
and as a reminder of the solemnity of his composition, and the strong sense
of his writings, and the sound doctrine which rang out so clearly in his
preaching, it will not, it is thought, be unacceptable to those to whom his
memory, in relation to these particulars, is such a treasure. His text was
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was on the 14tli of the same month — a half century ago yesterday —
accepted.
Dr. Mead was a strong man; a man of energy and ability, and of
clear vision and quick perception of that which was feasible and
practicable. He possessed singular administrative wisdom, and as
from the words, “For we are unto God a sweet savor of Christ, in them that
are saved and in them that perish. To the one we are a savor of death unto
death, and to the other the savor of life unto life.” And he had just been
dwelling upon what the parish had accomplished since his coming to it in
1836, when, in bringing the address to a conclusion, he thus remarks :
“But, brethren, this steady stream of prosperity is not without its sad
memories and solemn warnings. Within the past 25 years nearly 600 funer-
als have been attended by your rector, or by those who represented and as-
sisted him in this parish. Nearly 600 times in the aggregate has ‘Earth to
earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust.’ been pronounced over the mortal re-
mains of some of your relatives, friends and acquaintances. ‘Your fathers,
where are they?’ Of the aged and middle aged who greeted me at my coming
to this parish, but few now survive. The tomb, the green hillock which
marks their graves sadly reminds us that they are gone, that the place which
once knew them, will know them no more; and that soon their fate will be
ours. Of the four parishioners who, as the committee of this society invited
me to be your rector, three now sleep with their fathers, and one alone re-
mains. Amid all this havoc of death, the occupants of your parsonage have
been singularly preserved. Of the houses which stood around the green and
near the church and parsonage-lot when I came here, not one but has given
its trophy to death. I have often stood on my lawn and mused on the
changes wrought by time, and thought of departed friends and neighbors, and
been startled when I had numbered them, to find that some seventy, within
the call of my voice, had been removed by death, and yet those whom the
parsonage roof tree sheltered remained unscathed. Loudly has this fact
admonished your rector that, ‘whatsoever his hand findeth to do, for Christ
and the Church, should be done with his might.’ May the solemn voices of
the dead excite us, who must soon follow them into the spirit world, to devote
our short remnant of life to glorify God by doing good in our day and
generation.
One more topic, brethren, and I close. Within 25 years, 3,775 sermons
have been delivered in this place; 2,717 by myself, and the rest by clergymen
of the church who have assisted me. It is a solemn fact that the religious
instructions so extensively offered and so variously received have already
had their effect for good or evil on their hearers. For we may rest assured
that, whether, under the preaching of the Gospel, men will fear and improve,
or forbear and harden their hearts, God’s word, proclaimed by his ministers,
will not return unto Him void; it will accomplish that for which He hath
sent it; either to secure the salvation of those who improve it, or to justify
the condemnation of such as disregard it. ‘For we are unto God a sweet
saviour of Christ in them that are saved and in them that perish : to the one
we are the saviour of death unto death, and to the other the saviour of life
unto life.’ It is God’s design, ‘by the foolishness of preaching to save them
that believe’ and obey. It is His design through the faithfulness of preaching
to vindicate all his attributes when he shall bring us into judgment, and fix
the portion of each for eternity. Here the great fact will be shown that every
one who perishes has been his own destroyer, seeing he has had deliverance
placed within his reach, and might have grasped it if he would.
If then, brethren, it be true that you cannot be neutral under the preaching
of the Gospel, if it be true that every sermon you hear will either benefit or
injure you, how carefully and earnestly should your minister preach, and
how thoughtfully and prayerfully should you ‘take heed how ye hear.’ Many
years have I spoken to attentive ears and generous hearts, to minds alive to
appreciate the truths of the doctrine uttered, and to approve the forensic
skill and eloquence with which it may have been presented. But, ah,
brethren, the great question for each to settle is, has the word preached as
yet proved to my soul a savor of life unto life, or risen to God against me as a
savor of death unto death ?
We must deliver our message however men may receive it. We dare not
keep it back. We tell you that it is only by repentance and faith and
obedience that you can hope to escape the wrath to come. ‘ We pray you in
Christ stead be ye reconciled unto God.’ We set before the thoughtless and
unconverted the only alternative that can be proposed ; either forsake sin,